Relationship Hot Takes

30 Relationship Hot Takes

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   Infidelity should be an automatic relationship dealbreaker—no exceptions, no second chances

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   Big family Christmases beat quiet intimate ones
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   Being funnier beats being smarter
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   Being hot and dumb beats being smart and ugly
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   The person you are in a relationship is a performance—your 'true self' would be unlovable

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   Being included in all friend groups matters in relationships
7. 7.

   Stay-at-home parenting beats daycare

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   Non-traditional relationships beat staying single

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9. 9.

   Quality time with your partner beats solo mornings
10. 10.

    Coffee dates beat wine dates with your partner
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    Flirting works better with playful humor than deep talks

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    Being seen as smart beats being seen as beautiful
13. 13.

    Marriage is worth believing in
14. 14.

    Opposite political views are a relationship dealbreaker

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    I actually listen when you're worried about something

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    Most people don't show their love enough

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    Moving to your partner beats them moving to you
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    Expressing love takes way more energy than hate
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    You can't truly love someone and also fear losing them—that's just attachment masquerading as love

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20. 20.

    Poor communication kills more relationships than anything else

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21. 21.

    We spend enough quality time together

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22. 22.

    We spend enough quality time together
23. 23.

    Many untrustworthy friends beat one trusted person

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    Having siblings shapes you more than being an only child
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    You should feel totally comfortable with your partner's family
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    Never go to bed angry
27. 27.

    Love at first sight and 'the one' are real

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    You should date at least 3 years before getting married

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29. 29.

    Staying together 'for the kids' teaches children that misery and obligation are what love looks like

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30. 30.

    Playing the field beats finding your soulmate early

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