“Expressing love takes way more energy than hate”
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Agree
- Love requires constant effort and vulnerability
- Hate is the lazy emotion
- Building is harder than destroying
- Love means showing up every day
- Emotional labor of care is exhausting
Disagree
- Hate consumes you completely
- Anger takes massive emotional energy
- Love feels effortless when it's real
- Holding grudges is exhausting work
- Love energizes, hate depletes
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