“You should date at least 3 years before getting married”
Agree
- Takes time to see someone's true self
- Need to experience stress together
- Life stages change people significantly
- Divorce rates support longer courtships
- Major decisions shouldn't be rushed
Disagree
- When you know, you know
- Arbitrary timelines don't predict success
- Some couples are ready faster
- Marriage itself builds commitment
- Age and maturity matter more
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