“Your parents' relationship damaged you in ways you'll never fully understand or escape”
Agree
- Early patterns program us permanently
- We unconsciously repeat their dynamics
- Attachment styles formed before memory
- Even good parents create some wounds
Disagree
- People genuinely heal and break cycles
- This removes agency and responsibility
- Awareness creates possibility for change
- Determinism isn't destiny
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