“Time doesn't heal anything, you just become a different person who isn't affected by what happened”
Agree
- You outgrow trauma not process it
- Identity shift creates emotional distance
- The wounded self gets left behind
- Healing is replacement not repair
Disagree
- Processing pain enables genuine healing
- Same person integrates difficult experiences
- Growth builds on existing foundation
- Continuity of self persists through change
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