“The need for closure after relationships end is just ego refusing to accept you weren't the main character in someone else's story”
Agree
- We want to matter more than we did
- Closure is illusion, acceptance comes from within
- Their reasons don't actually change anything
- Needing explanation is about control
Disagree
- Understanding helps people heal and move forward
- Respect means offering basic explanation
- Closure provides important psychological resolution
- Maturity includes taking responsibility
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