“Self-care is just socially acceptable selfishness that we've convinced ourselves is virtuous”
Agree
- It enables guilt-free neglect of others
- Prioritizing self undermines community bonds
- We use wellness to justify indulgence
- It's narcissism with therapeutic language
Disagree
- You can't pour from empty cup
- Boundaries are necessary not selfish
- Healthy individuals create healthy communities
- Self-preservation enables sustainable giving
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