“Having children is just narcissism disguised as love—you want a mini-you, not to serve another person”
Agree
- Nobody asks to be born
- Parents prioritize their emotional needs
- Biological drive isn't noble
- Children fulfill parental voids
Disagree
- Parenting requires ultimate selflessness
- Creating life is sacred and meaningful
- Love for children transcends self
- This misunderstands human motivation completely
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