“Being the less attractive partner is actually better”
Agree
- Feel more secure they chose you
- No jealousy or constant worry
- Personality mattered more
- Room to grow without pressure
- They're invested beyond looks
Disagree
- Feels unbalanced and insecure
- Want to be desired fully
- Sets up power imbalance
- Others' reactions feel embarrassing
- Attraction matters for connection
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