“I'd rather clean someone else's house all day than let my ex clean mine”
Agree
- Don't want them in my space
- Physical work beats emotional awkwardness
- Need those boundaries maintained
- They'd judge everything I own
- Just exhausting, not traumatic
Disagree
- Free cleaning is free cleaning
- I'm over them anyway
- Would rather relax at home
- They already know my mess
- Eight hours is brutal
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