“Planned dates beat spontaneous ones”
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Agree
- Shows effort and thoughtfulness
- Avoid awkward what-to-do moments
- Can dress appropriately
- Build anticipation and excitement
- Better venues need reservations
Disagree
- Spontaneity feels more romantic
- Less pressure and expectations
- More authentic in the moment
- Allows for serendipity
- Plans often fall through anyway
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