“Unconditional love doesn't exist and pretending it does keeps people trapped in toxic relationships”
Agree
- Everyone has breaking points and boundaries
- Conditions protect us from harm
- Unconditional enables abuse and manipulation
- Healthy love requires mutual respect standards
Disagree
- Parents genuinely love children unconditionally
- True love transcends individual actions
- Setting limits isn't the same thing
- Some bonds run deeper than behavior
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