“Polyamory is just as valid as monogamy”
Agree
- Consenting adults can structure love how they want
- Monogamy is just cultural conditioning
- More love doesn't diminish existing love
- Honesty beats sneaking around
- Humans aren't naturally monogamous
Disagree
- Deep intimacy requires exclusivity
- It's usually one person wanting more
- Dividing attention weakens all bonds
- Kids need stability
- Most people get hurt eventually
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