“Planning surprises beats receiving them in relationships”
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Agree
- Love showing you care
- Joy of giving feels better
- Control over the experience
- Seeing their reaction is priceless
- Demonstrates thoughtfulness and effort
Disagree
- Being surprised is more exciting
- Takes pressure off yourself
- Shows they know you well
- Planning is stressful and hard
- Surprises feel more spontaneous and real
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