“Meet the kids before the friends”
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Agree
- Kids are the bigger commitment
- Shows serious intentions early
- Family approval matters most
- Integration happens sooner
- Tests compatibility on what matters
Disagree
- Friends give unfiltered truth first
- Less pressure with friends
- Kids need more certainty before meeting
- Friends reveal true character
- Build confidence before family stakes
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