“Having a big wedding is just insecurity and proving you need external validation for your relationship”
Agree
- Small intimate ceremonies are more meaningful authentic
- Spending thousands for others' entertainment wasteful
- Confident couples don't need the show
- It's performance not genuine celebration usually
Disagree
- Celebrating with community creates beautiful memories
- Cultural traditions deserve honoring and continuation
- Sharing joy isn't insecurity it's generosity
- Your judgment says more about you
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