“Being the dumper beats getting dumped”
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Agree
- You control the narrative
- Less emotional damage to ego
- Shows you know what you want
- Avoid being blindsided by pain
- Maintain your dignity and power
Disagree
- Carry guilt of hurting someone
- Being dumped teaches resilience
- Dumpers often have commitment issues
- Getting dumped means you loved fully
- Being dumper suggests you give up easily
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