“Giving a lap dance beats getting one”
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Agree
- More control over the situation
- Power in being the performer
- Less vulnerable position to be in
- Can set the pace and tone
- Confidence boost from giving
Disagree
- Getting to relax and enjoy
- Pressure of performing is real
- Receiving shows trust and openness
- Less self-conscious as receiver
- Can just be in the moment
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