“Give advice to struggling people over being a shoulder to cry on”
Agree
- Solutions help more than sympathy
- Empowering people to act
- Perspective when emotions cloud judgment
- Practical help makes real difference
Disagree
- People need to feel heard first
- Sometimes there's no solution needed
- Advice feels dismissive of pain
- Emotional support heals
- Not your place to fix others
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