“Holding grudges comes naturally to me”
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Agree
- Memory of harm protects you
- Some things are unforgivable
- Boundaries need consequences
- Justice matters more than peace
- Can't just forget real pain
Disagree
- Grudges poison you not them
- Forgiveness is freedom
- Carrying anger is exhausting
- Everyone deserves second chances
- Let go to move forward
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