“Buying gifts for your partner's family is their financial responsibility, not yours”
Agree
- Not married means separate family obligations
- Their family their gift budget problem
- Sets healthy financial boundaries early on
- Already expensive enough dating without extra
Disagree
- Shows respect and investment in relationship
- Thoughtful gesture strengthens family bonds naturally
- Petty to nickel and dime gifts
- Partnership means sharing these responsibilities together
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