“People don't change—anyone who hurt you once will absolutely do it again”
Agree
- Core personality is fixed by adulthood
- Patterns always repeat eventually
- Trust broken can't be rebuilt
- Hope clouds obvious reality
Disagree
- Growth and redemption are real
- Crisis catalyzes genuine transformation
- Everyone deserves chance to evolve
- This justifies never forgiving anyone
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