“Your relationship with yourself is the only one that actually matters — everything else is just a reflection of that”
Agree
- Can't love others without loving yourself
- External relationships mirror internal state
- Self-relationship determines all other connections
- Others can't complete what's broken inside
Disagree
- Human connection gives life actual meaning
- This promotes narcissistic self-obsession
- We're fundamentally interdependent beings
- Others teach us who we are
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