“The person who cares less has all the power in dating”
Agree
- Less investment means less vulnerability
- Desperation turns people off instantly
- They can walk away easier
- Sets the pace of relationship
Disagree
- Mutual care creates the best relationships
- Playing it cool is exhausting
- Power dynamics make terrible foundations
- Vulnerability is actually strength
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