Making the first move beats waiting around


Agree

  • Takes control of your destiny
  • Confidence is attractive
  • No time wasted wondering
  • Shows you know what you want
  • Regret hurts more than rejection

Disagree

  • Enjoy being pursued
  • Lets them show interest first
  • Risking rejection feels vulnerable
  • Traditional approach feels right
  • They should prove they want you

Your turn

Where do you stand?

Take your stance

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