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“Letting go of past relationships and grudges is overrated advice”

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  • Some people deserve to be cut off
  • Remembering harm protects you from repeat hurt
  • Not everything deserves forgiveness
  • Boundaries matter more than closure

Disagree

  • Holding grudges only hurts yourself
  • Forgiveness frees you from the past
  • Resentment is emotional poison
  • Moving on creates space for better things

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