“Letting go of past relationships and grudges is overrated advice”
Agree
- Some people deserve to be cut off
- Remembering harm protects you from repeat hurt
- Not everything deserves forgiveness
- Boundaries matter more than closure
Disagree
- Holding grudges only hurts yourself
- Forgiveness frees you from the past
- Resentment is emotional poison
- Moving on creates space for better things
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