“Giving up alcohol is easier than no intimacy for a year”
Agree
- Physical connection is a basic need
- Alcohol is just a social lubricant
- Intimacy affects relationship health
- Can survive without drinking easily
- Touch deprivation is real suffering
Disagree
- A year without drinking is brutal
- Can handle intimacy drought better
- Social life revolves around alcohol
- Self-control with either is possible
- Depends on your relationship quality
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