“Planning surprises beats being surprised”
Agree
- Love seeing their reaction
- Control freak in the best way
- Thoughtfulness is my love language
- Enjoy the anticipation of planning
- Know what they'll actually like
Disagree
- Being surprised is more romantic
- Takes the pressure off
- Not knowing is exciting
- Let someone else show effort
- Surprises feel more special
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