“Making the first move beats waiting for them to”
Agree
- Takes control of your desires
- Shows confidence and initiative
- Gets what you want faster
- Modern relationships need equality
- Waiting creates frustration
Disagree
- Being pursued feels amazing
- Traditional dynamics work better
- Builds anticipation and tension
- They should show interest first
- Don't want to seem desperate
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