“Deep love should scare you at least a little bit”
Agree
- Real vulnerability is terrifying
- Having something to lose creates fear
- Opening your heart risks devastating pain
- The depth of feeling can be overwhelming
- Love means giving someone power to hurt you
Disagree
- Healthy love feels safe, not scary
- Fear signals something's wrong
- Peace is the foundation of real love
- You shouldn't be afraid of your partner
- Security is what makes love work
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