“Constantly talking about your ex means the relationship is doomed”
Agree
- Shows they're not over them
- Comparison kills new connections
- Emotionally still attached there
- Disrespectful to current partner
- Red flag for baggage
Disagree
- Past shaped who they are
- Could be processing trauma still
- Transparency beats hiding history
- Some stories naturally include exes
- Overreacting shows your insecurity
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